Storge love is the deep affection and loyalty that flows from family-like bonds. The Bible illustrates this love in the devotion of Jacob to his sons (Genesis 37:3), Ruth’s loyalty to Naomi (Ruth 1:16–17), and God’s fatherly compassion for His people (Psalm 103:13). Christians are called to practice this same familial devotion toward one another (Romans 12:10). Storge love is not forced or conditional—it is a reflection of God’s heart, expressed in everyday acts of support, forgiveness, and nurturing. Storge love strengthens relationships, cultivates unity within the body of Christ, and mirrors God’s compassionate, faithful love to those around us.
The Greek language has terms for four different types of love. These four types of love are eros, phileo, agape, and storge. Although only two of these types of love are used in the New Testament (phileo and agape), it is important to understand how all of them work, as compared to each other.
Phileo love is brotherly love, while eros love is sexual love, which we see displayed in Song of Solomon. Agape love is self-sacrificial, the greatest example being when Christ died for us. Storge love is natural, unforced, familial love; a great example of storge love is the love that a parent has for a child.
We are called to love with storge love—the natural, affectionate love that flows from family-like devotion and genuine care for others. This kind of love reflects God’s heart as our Father and models how we are to treat one another as members of His family. When we show storge love, we express warmth, loyalty, and compassion even in ordinary moments—helping a struggling friend without being asked, comforting someone who feels overlooked, or forgiving a family member who has hurt us. Romans 12:10 calls us to “be devoted to one another in love” (NIV), reminding us that storge love strengthens our relationships and builds unity within the body of Christ. We practice this love when we put others before ourselves, nurture those around us with patience and kindness, and create spaces where people feel safe, seen, and valued—just as God does for us.