what does the bible say?
On the night before His crucifixion, Jesus commanded His disciples to love one another as He loved them (John 13:34-35). The Greek word for love used in verses 34-35 is "agape," which refers to selfless, sacrificial love. To highlight its importance, the command to "love one another" is repeated three times in these two verses. The commandment to love is not new (Leviticus 19:18; Deuteronomy 6:5; Matthew 22:36-40). However, Jesus' command regarding love presented a distinctly new standard for two reasons: it was sacrificial love modeled after His love ("as I have loved you"), and it is produced through the New Covenant by the transforming power of the Holy Spirit (Jeremiah 31:31-34; Galatians 5:22).