The Bible strongly condemns arrogance, clearly stating that God detests prideful attitudes and self-exaltation. Proverbs highlights arrogance as one of the foremost sins God hates, emphasizing that the arrogant will face punishment. Arrogance keeps us from recognizing our need for God as it promotes self. Throughout Scripture, God calls us to humility, with Jesus exemplifying a servant-hearted life, teaching that true greatness comes from serving others rather than seeking authority over them. Believers are called to prioritize humility in their relationships, recognizing that arrogance disrupts connections and causes division. Ultimately, our confidence should come from God, not self, as only He alone is good, true, Almighty, and perfect. We are reminded to boast only in the Lord and to let Him be the foundation of our worth and purpose.
Love is the opposite of arrogance because it exalts others above self. The life of Jesus exemplifies this. He came to serve and to give His life for others. Jesus told His disciples, "You know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many" (Mark 10:42–45).
Throughout the Bible, there are clear instructions that we are to put others before self. This is because arrogance and pride destroy our relationships with others. "Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves" (Philippians 2:3; see also Romans 12:3). In direct contrast, Jesus said, "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven" (Matthew 5:3). God gives grace to those who are humble (Proverbs 3:34; James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5).
While arrogance is clearly a sin, remember that you can be confident without being arrogant (Galatians 6:4). Our confidence comes from God, which means we cannot exalt ourselves above Him, as He is the source of all things good in our lives. "'Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.' For it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends" (2 Corinthians 10:17–18). Avoid arrogance. Stay humble and let God be the source of your confidence.