what does the bible say?
Throughout Ephesians 4, Paul is writing about unity in the church and exhorting the believers to "walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called" (Ephesians 4:1). He also talks about functioning as a singular body with different roles given by God. The body of Christ is designed to work together to help each other grow into spiritual maturity. Speaking the truth in love is an important part of the spiritual maturing process. We are to speak truth—the truths of the gospel, the truths of God's character, and the truths of what He has called believers to. We should speak God's Word to each other, even the parts that bring correction or discomfort. All of this is to be motivated by love for one another and a mutual desire that we may progressively become more spiritually mature. God's love compels us to share His truth and love with others (1 John 4:7–12). In a world often clouded by confusion and miscommunication, we are called to be vessels of clarity and compassion.