What is meant by the 'dark night of the soul'?

What is meant by the 'dark night of the soul'?
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TL;DR:

The “dark night of the soul” began as a mystical phrase from John of the Cross for a painful journey toward deeper union with God. Dark nights are hardships God uses to refine our faith, strengthen endurance, and shape us to be more like Christ.

from the old testament

  • Though David showed that he loved and trusted God, he experienced turmoil in his life that made him experience what we might describe as a dark night of the soul: “How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I take counsel in my soul and have sorrow in my heart all the day? How long shall my enemy be exalted over me?” (Psalm 13:1-2). Yet by the end of Psalm 13, he would say, “But I have trusted in your steadfast love; my heart shall rejoice in your salvation. I will sing to the Lord, because he has dealt bountifully with me” (Psalm 13:5-6). A true believer does not stay in doubt but trusts in God for deliverance.

from the new testament

  • The Spirit-filled believer may still struggle with sin (Romans 7:21–24), which can trouble his heart and raise questions about his relationship with God. These struggles are part of everyday Christian life for those who still wrestle with remaining sin (1 John 1:8–9).
  • Believers also endure hardships that are not the result of sin. James teaches that trials test faith and can lead to difficult, painful days (James 1:2–3). These burdens may make God feel distant, yet Scripture explains that He uses them to mature His people and deepen their dependence on Him. Suffering is not a mystical stage of enlightenment but a regular part of following Christ in a fallen world.
  • Even through dark nights or difficult seasons, God intends good for His people. Trials build endurance and maturity (2 Peter 1:3–11), and joy and peace increase as believers walk in obedience to Christ (John 15:9–11; Galatians 5:22–24; Romans 8:6). In this way, God strengthens assurance. There is no mystical path toward greater union with God. Instead, believers are being made more like Christ through life’s difficulties.

implications for today

Loneliness and discouragement can affect anyone, including believers. But the truth is that believers are never really alone. The faithful God of the Bible is working in your life right now. God carries His people through weakness, confusion, and sorrow, and He will carry you as well. In the dark night of the soul or seasons of darkness, it is not because God is not there; we just often don’t see Him. This is why it’s so important to continue abiding in God, no matter what the season. We must seek Him and hold on to what we know is true in seasons where we are not sure where He is and what He is doing. We must continue trusting His promises and obeying Him.

Praise God that He has given us many ways to stay connected to Him: reading and studying the Word, praying, worshiping in song, walking through nature, taking time to unplug, and living in community, just to name a few. We are not meant to walk through difficult or dark seasons alone. God designed us to live in community with other believers, and He often strengthens His people through the care and prayers of the family of God. Share your struggles with someone who loves Christ and can walk with you. Let others encourage you, remind you what is true, and help you bear your burdens. God often brings comfort through the very people He places around you.

Even in dark seasons, we can trust that God is working out everything for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28). One day, when we see Him face-to-face, we will understand why He brings us to and through tough times. And as unlikely as it feels now, we will thank Him for it!

understand

  • The term “dark night of the soul” came from John of the Cross and described a mystical journey toward deeper union with God.
  • The Bible presents “dark nights” as normal trials, not secret stages of enlightenment.
  • God uses “dark nights” to strengthen our faith and shape believers to be more like Christ.

reflect

  • When you walk through a season where God feels distant, what helps you remember that He is there?
  • How have you seen God use difficult seasons to refine your faith and shape you into Christlikeness?
  • What practical steps are you taking to abide in Christ when seasons are good and when they feel dark or uncertain?

engage

  • How should we understand seasons of doubt or discouragement in light of what the Bible teaches about trials?
  • How can we help each other through “dark nights” without turning them into something mystical or unbiblical?
  • What truths about God are important for us to encourage each other with in hard seasons?