The Bible affirms that miscarried children are fully human, intricately formed by God, and valued in His sight, even if their lives are brief (Psalm 139:13-16; Genesis 1:27). While miscarriage brings grief, parents are not alone in their mourning; God understands the loss, offers comfort, and promises hope. God knows each child’s life intimately, and that separation is not necessarily permanent, as illustrated in David’s response to his infant’s death. Further, God is with us in our grief and still good, which urges us to avoid bitterness and to lean on Him for strength and peace. Understanding that miscarriage is a natural consequence of a fallen world (Genesis 3) helps parents release guilt while honoring their child, grieving fully, and seeking healing through prayer, Scripture, supportive relationships, and professional guidance. Even in the midst of sorrow, parents can trust that their child was a blessing and that God’s love and purpose remain steadfast.
A miscarriage is the death of a child before he or she is born. The mother's womb is designed to be a place of warmth and safety. The fallen world, including several thousand years of sin-induced genetic issues, can cause chromosomal errors in the egg or sperm. If the defects are too great, the fetus often spontaneously miscarries. Problems with the mother's reproductive system can also cause issues with carrying a baby to term. Most miscarriages are not caused by anything the mother did or could have prevented.
Since God sees each miscarried child as one made in His image, we should too. It is entirely appropriate to name the child, acknowledge his individuality, and mourn his loss. Whether the baby was planned or not, wanted or not, miscarriage is still the death of a child—a loss to which our heavenly Father can relate (John 3:16).
God not only takes care of the baby, He loves the mourning parents. We can and should respond to miscarriage by giving ourselves permission to grieve fully, knowing that God sees and values our child. Processing the grief of our baby’s death through journaling, prayer, or a small ceremony can help acknowledge our loss and begin the healing process. Leaning on God in prayer, Scripture, and supportive relationships allows us to experience His comfort and presence (Psalm 34:18). Seeking professional counseling or joining a grief support group can also provide guidance and community for processing the complex emotions of loss. Finally, as we heal, we can honor our child’s memory by choosing to live in hope, trusting God’s love and faithfulness even in the midst of sorrow (Romans 8:28).
Circumstances may be difficult; the situation may look dire. But a child, no matter how short his life, is a blessing.