God sees men and women as spiritually equal, according to the Bible. Both are made in His image (Genesis 1:27), were separated from Him by sin, and need a Savior (Romans 3:23). Both may be redeemed through Christ and receive the Holy Spirit making them heirs of God (Galatians 3:27-29). Though men and women differ physically, they are equal spiritually. Scripture shows that God has given men and women different roles in some circumstances (1 Timothy 2:11-15). But all who belong to Christ are equally loved by God and equally His children and heirs (Galatians 3:28). We should all seek to fulfill the unique purpose God has in store for us and do so in a way that communicates love and respect to others and brings glory to God (Ephesians 2:10; 5:21; John 13:34-35; Colossians 3:17, 23).
“Favorite” can apply to ice-cream flavors, teacher’s pets, and horse racing. It doesn’t apply when discussing God’s love for His children, though. In fact, it took three visions and a divine message from an Italian centurion for Peter to finally understand that “God shows no partiality” (Acts 10:10-16, 34).
Too many in our world today still don’t understand this. Some men may misuse Bible scriptures to justify a domineering attitude toward their wives and other women in their lives. Some women may resent what they see as a biblically-endorsed “inferior” role for women. But the Bible shows that both views are wrong. All believers, male and female, are “children” of our Heavenly Father (1 John 3:1). “[T]here is no male and female” in God’s love for us and His offer to salvation through Christ (Galatians 3:28).
But men and women do have different roles in certain circumstances —- and that’s fine. As our Creator, God knows us better than we know ourselves, so we trust in His wisdom. In marriage, the husband and wife are called to work together. Instead of resentment over roles, men and women should focus on the most important common role: communicating about the Lord to others in a way that brings Him glory.