Is household salvation biblical?

from the old testament

• “Household salvation” is not found in the Old Testament.

from the new testament

• “Household salvation” is the idea that when the head of a family is saved then the rest of the family is also saved. While there are biblical references to a household being saved, it is a misunderstanding of those passages that leads to the view that the household was saved because of the leader of the house was saved. When the passages are understood in context, as well as when considering other Scripture, then the New Testament teaches that salvation is a personal response to the offer of salvation.
• Perhaps the strongest verse used to support “household salvation” is found in Acts 16. There, Paul and Silas were in prison when an earthquake broke their bonds and allowed them to run free (Acts 16:25–26). However, they chose to stay behind and not escape. The jailer came in and, initially thinking everyone had escaped, prepared to kill himself (Acts 16:27). Paul stopped him. The unexpected response of Paul and Silas to their chance at freedom softened the jailer’s heart, leading him to ask, “what must I do to be saved?” (Acts 16:28–30). Paul said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household” (Acts 16:31).
• At first glance, that passage reads as if Paul was saying that the Jailer’s salvation would include the salvation of his family. While that interpretation contradicts other scriptures (see below), even in the context that is a dubious interpretation. Notice what the passage says next: “they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all who were in his house” (Acts 16:32). This verse clarifies that Paul was not just speaking to the Jailer but to his household as well. This means that Paul was appealing to each one individually, not just the Jailer.
• Additionally, one verse further says, “[the Jailer] took them the same hour of the night and washed their wounds; and he was baptized at once, he and all his family” (Acts 16:33). Notice that “he and all his family” is similar language as “you and your household” in Acts 16:31. In Acts 16:33, it’s clear that the Jailer’s baptism did not mean that the rest of his household was baptized by proxy (because of the Jailer’s baptism). Instead, it means that the members of his household were individually baptized. The implication is that they had also been individually saved.
• Therefore, while this passage does say, “you and your household will be saved,” the immediate context points towards the rest of the household being there and hearing Paul. It is likely, then, that Paul was simply addressing those who were there (“you and your household”) rather than saying that the Jailer’s salvation meant the family was saved, as well.
• While the context has enough there to make an argument against “household salvation,” the rest of the New Testament argues against it. For example, in 1 Corinthians Paul spoke about believers being married to unbelievers. He said, “To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy” (1 Corinthians 7:12–14). Paul was not saying that remaining married would save the unbelieving spouse of children, but that the believing spouse would be an influence on them to show them Christ. We see that confirmed in Paul’s rhetorical argument, “For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife? “ (1 Corinthians 7:16). The fact that his or her belief would only be an influence, not a guarantee of salvation, is a direct argument against “household salvation.”
• In addition to passages like that, those passages which directly teach about how to be saved are always directed toward individuals.
• To see that salvation is personal is to first understand the reason for salvation. Paul teaches that every individual is sinful. Quoting from various Old Testament passages, he said, “as it is written: ‘None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one’” (Romans 3:10b–12). Paul was saying that each individual sins.
• Least one argues that that means one is sinful after some “age of accountability,” later in Romans he explained that “sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned” (Romans 5:12). He was making the argument that we are not sinful first and foremost because we sin but because we were born with a sinful nature we inherited from Adam.
• Because each individual is born already sinful, then every individual stands guilty before God. Paul noted that the result of sin is death because “the wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23a). That is, just like one earns wages for work that he or she has done, each person has earned the “wage” of death for his or her sin.
• So, salvation is needed because of personal guilt. This was why the Father sent His Son, Jesus. Jesus, being fully God (John 1:1) never sinned. Being fully human (Philippians 2:7–8), Jesus lived like any other human except without sin (Hebrews 4:15). Because only sinful men and women need to die, Jesus did not have to. But He willingly died so that the Father could pour out the wrath that sinners had earned against Him.
• Paul said that “God put forward [Jesus] as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith” (Romans 3:25a). A “propitiation” is a sacrifice that appeases the wrath of God, meaning that Jesus’ death satisfied God’s wrath against sin. However, notice that salvation is not for everyone. Instead, it is for everyone who receives that gift by faith.
• To receive by faith is a personal act. “For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved” (Romans 10:10). A “household salvation” view says that people who may not have even learned about Jesus or who do not even have faith in Him are saved simply because the head of the household does believe. That’s contrary to Paul’s teaching that salvation comes through a personal expression of faith. One must confess and believe in Jesus to be saved, not relying on the confession or belief of someone else.
• While the Bible’s clear teaching on salvation is individualistic, some might rightly ask about infants or other children who die at a young age. Will they be saved if they couldn’t yet understand the gospel? This article cannot go deep into that question, but the short answer is that Scripture implies that the very young do go to heaven when they die. See Is there an age of accountability in the Bible? What happens to babies that die?. Note, though, that if they are saved, it is not because their parents were saved but because they died too young to understand their guilt and way of escape. Ultimately, because God is the perfect judge, we trust Him to do what is right in those cases. However, even in those instances, Scripture indicates that salvation is after death and because of innocence, not salvation before death because of parental belief.

implications for today

When it comes to salvation, Scripture does not teach that anyone can be saved because of someone else’s confession or belief. Each one of us are guilty before God and each one of us must give an account of ourselves to Him. The account we give cannot be, “my parents believed.”

It is not uncommon for a young person to express a form of belief because his or her parents believed. Particularly if one spent his or her life growing up in the church, he or she can “talk the talk” of being a Christian. However, belief and confession are to be heart-level responses to who Jesus is and what He has done for you, personally.

If you grew up in such a family, then regardless of the faith of your parents, you need to examine your own heart. Do you genuinely believe and does that belief show itself in how you live? If you have any doubts whatsoever, we encourage you to speak with a godly man or woman so that they can help you navigate the difference between believing because your parents believe and believing because you believe.

If, on the other hand, you are parents, then as parents, we can sympathize with your desire that all of your children and/or spouse are saved. However, be comforted by knowing that God has not given you the responsibility of saving them. Instead, you are to show them who Jesus is as clearly as you can. That includes not just telling them about Jesus but demonstrating a heart of repentance when you sin and a quickness to forgive when they repent. Pray for your children and spouse to be saved but please do not be anxious about it. Trust God because He is always good.