What does it mean that Christ was despised and rejected of men (Isaiah 53:3)?

from the old testament

• Isaiah called the coming figure “the Servant,” describing a mission marked by rejection. He wrote, “He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not” (Isaiah 53:3). The words “despised” and “rejected” indicate contempt, suggesting that the Servant was seen as worthless. The phrase about people hiding their faces also shows that people were ashamed of Him, avoiding Him. The prophecy sets the expectation that the true Messiah would face rejection from the world He came to save.
• The broader context explains why this rejection occurs: people might misunderstand the Servant’s suffering as divine punishment. Isaiah said, “Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted” (Isaiah 53:4).
• Isaiah also observed that “he had no form or majesty that we should look at him, and no beauty that we should desire him” (Isaiah 53:2). The Servant’s appearance and social standing were not attractive. This explains the hiding of faces in Isaiah 53:3, since people often judge by outward appearances. Israel’s expectations for a conquering leader made it easy for them to overlook the Servant’s humility.
• Note that the Servant’s rejection was part of God’s plan to bring salvation to the world. We learn that “he was pierced for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his wounds we are healed (Isaiah 53:5). “Yet it was the will of the LORD to crush him; he has put him to grief” (Isaiah 53:10a). So, the disdain He endured was the burden that God placed on the Servant’s shoulders to bring salvation to those who despised Him.

from the new testament

• The Gospels demonstrate that Jesus was the Servant who fulfilled Isaiah’s prophecy of being rejected and undervalued. John recorded, “He came to his own, and his own people did not receive him” (John 1:11). The Messiah who came to the Jews stood among His people, yet many turned away in disgust.
• Social disdain appeared early. When Philip told Nathanael about Jesus, he asked, “Can anything good come out of Nazareth?” (John 1:46). This prejudice helps explain why Jesus’ own hometown rejected Him, even forcing Him out after He revealed their lack of faith (Luke 4:24–30). The Servant’s unimpressive appearance matched the skepticism He encountered.
• Religious leaders bristled when Jesus spoke about His identity. For example, He declared, “I and the Father are one” (John 10:30), and they responded by preparing to stone Him for blasphemy (John 10:33). At another time, after Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead, rather than welcoming Him, the Jewish council concluded that Jesus must be eliminated to protect their position (John 11:47–53).
• Jesus also faced rejection from His closest circle. It started with Judas betraying Him for money (Matthew 26:14–16). That was followed by the other disciples running away when He was arrested (Mark 14:50). Finally, even Peter, one of His closest followers, denied knowing Him (Matthew 26:69–75).
• As He hung on the cross, He continued to be despised. Soldiers mocked, passersby hurled insults, and leaders sneered, “He saved others; he cannot save himself” (Mark 15:31). Ironically, their derision missed that dying was His mission: He was saving others precisely by not saving Himself from the cross (Mark 10:45).

implications for today

Today, people continue to reject and despise Jesus Christ by not believing and receiving the gift of salvation available only through Him (John 3:16–18; Jude 1:24–25). This is a decision that, unfortunately, will result in eternal damnation in hell if they do not change directions before they die.

Jesus’ earthly ministry was never meant to be showy. In fact, Paul explains in a letter to the Corinthian church, “But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, so that, as it is written, ‘Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord’" (1 Corinthians 1:27–31).

If you have not yet believed in Christ, come to Him today in repentance and faith. He receives everyone who comes to Him, even if they first rejected Him. Indeed, that was why He was willing to be rejected, so that men and women could be saved through His death.