what does the bible say?
The Bible teaches that believers are called to be peacemakers and seek reconciliation when conflicts arise. In Matthew 5:9, Jesus blesses those who pursue peace, and in 2 Corinthians 5:18–19, it tells us that God entrusts His followers with the ministry of reconciliation. When conflicts occur, the Bible advises addressing minor offenses by overlooking them (Proverbs 19:11), but for more serious issues, a step-by-step process of confrontation and reconciliation is outlined in Matthew 18:15–17. This process includes private confrontation, involving a few trusted individuals, and, if necessary, bringing the matter before the church. Ultimately, regardless of the outcome, believers are called to forgive (Ephesians 4:32) and to live in humility and peace with others (Romans 12:18). We are called to engage in conflict resolution in a way that honors God and seeks the good of the other person, pursuing restoration if possible. Ultimately, conflict resolution gives us the opportunity to display the gospel to others and to experience God's grace in our own lives.