what does the bible say?
When Jesus taught us not to call our brother a fool, he was not condemning people being discerning. He also was not saying we should never use the words “fool” or “foolish.” Instead, Jesus was condemning wrongful judgment calls and angry insults. Jesus' teaching in Matthew 5:22 cautions against using derogatory terms like "fool" in a way that diminishes another's intrinsic value as an image-bearer of God, reflecting a heart condition contrary to love and respect. Paul’s use of “foolish” (e.g., Galatians 3:1) targeted erroneous beliefs and practices, aiming to correct and guide rather than to demean. Jesus taught us the proper heart attitude a believer should have. Believers are to live out God’s kingdom values (see Matthew 5:2–12, 27–28, 38–39) and love others (John 13:34–35; 1 John 4:7–12), reflecting His character to the world and treating people with the respect and value they deserve since we are all made in the image of God. Both Jesus and Paul emphasize the need for heart transformation and sincere love, aligning our behavior with the recognition that every person bears God's image and deserves respect. Ultimately, the difference lies in the intent: Jesus forbids harmful insults that reveal a sinful heart, while Paul’s rebukes seek correction and growth in understanding.