Why does God allow miscarriage if He hates abortion?

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TL;DR:

Miscarriage is a natural, unintended loss in a fallen world, while abortion is a deliberate act of killing that Scripture condemns. God values every life and calls us to uphold the value of life, even of the unborn, as well.

from the old testament

  • The difference between abortion and miscarriage is similar to the difference between murder and accidental death. Abortion is a deliberate, intentional taking of an innocent human life, which Scripture condemns: “You shall not murder” (Exodus 20:13) and “Do not kill the innocent and righteous” (Exodus 23:7). Miscarriage, on the other hand, is an unintended death caused by natural or accidental circumstances, not by human intent, and Scripture recognizes that unintended deaths are morally distinct from deliberate murder (Numbers 35:11-12). One involves human beings taking life into their own hands, the other results from the brokenness of a fallen world beyond our control.
  • God can allow for time and chance to influence what happens to us on earth (Ecclesiastes 9:11), while still condemning the purposeful murder of an innocent (Proverbs 6:16-17).

from the new testament

  • Even the shortest life has value in God’s eyes. Jesus and the apostles affirm that God cares deeply for each person, including the unborn (Matthew 10:29-31; Luke 12:6-7). Miscarriage is not a moral failure or sin; it occurs under God’s permissive will in a fallen world, not under human rebellion.
  • Abortion is a deliberate act of killing, which God condemns (Matthew 19:18; Romans 1:28-32, 13:9). Miscarriage, however, is a natural consequence of a fallen world, not a sinful choice. The New Testament distinguishes human culpability from the hardships of living in a broken creation, highlighting that God’s grace is sufficient even in sorrow (2 Corinthians 12:9; Hebrews 4:15-16).
  • Though miscarriages are heartbreaking, God can use grief and loss to draw people closer to Him and to teach reliance on His comfort and strength (Romans 8:28; 2 Corinthians 1:3-4). The New Testament emphasizes that God can work through trials to refine faith, heal hearts, and strengthen trust in Him.

implications for today

An abortion is a deliberate action, taken with the specific intent of ending a human life. There is no moral comparison to a miscarriage, any more than there is one between arson and an accidental house fire. It would be ridiculous to excuse an arsonist on the grounds that some houses burn down by accident. Abortion is not made any more moral by referring to miscarriage, any more than murder can be justified by referring to accidental deaths.

Miscarriages occur when something triggers a premature birth. Often, this happens early enough in the pregnancy that the unborn child does not survive. The specific cause of miscarriages vary. They might include an abnormality in the mother's reproductive organs, a disease, hormonal problems, a genetic issue in the child, an illness, or an injury. It may even be due to the negligence or carelessness of the mother or some other person. Miscarriages are unintentional, and this makes all the difference.

God designed the universe to operate under a set of rules and natural laws. He only interferes with the "normal" operation of nature under extraordinary circumstances. The question of why God does not prevent miscarriages is not much different than the question of why God does not prevent any other evil—or all evil, for that matter. This draws in the question of free will and why we are allowed to make certain choices.

Part of the confusion we often have is the assumption that God is doing nothing to restrain evil. Scripture, in fact, suggests the opposite (2 Thessalonians 2:3-7). God has, in fact, limited the extent to which we can suffer in this world (1 Corinthians 10:13). That miscarriages occur doesn't mean God has left the world unchecked. It does, however, mean that we are living in a world of cause and effect, where our choices really do matter.

understand

  • Miscarriage is unintentional, while abortion is a deliberate sin.
  • Every unborn life is valuable to God, and He calls us to uphold the sanctity of life.
  • Miscarriage reflects a fallen world, but God is present, good, and in control even in our grief.

reflect

  • How does understanding the difference between miscarriage and abortion affect your view of God’s justice and mercy?
  • How can you rely on God’s comfort when confronting the pain or fear of loss in a fallen world?
  • How can you personally honor the value of life, even in situations beyond your control?

engage

  • How does Scripture help us distinguish between human culpability and the hardships caused by a fallen world?
  • How can we support those who grieve miscarriages while upholding the sanctity of life?
  • How does understanding God’s sovereignty and presence in grief change our response to unintended loss?