What does 1 Peter 3:7 mean by referring to wives as the 'weaker vessel'?In his letter to the church, Peter addresses husbands and wives to help create healthy, God-honoring relationships between them. We find similar types of household instructions in Paul's letters to the Ephesians (Ephesians 5:22—6:4) and the Colossians (Colossians 3:18–21). After addressing the wives, Peter tells the husbands to "live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered" (1 Peter 3:7). Often our first reaction to hearing women called "weaker," especially in the context of marriage, is to believe that this verse encourages the continuation of a patriarchal system that restricts women because women are seen as less valuable. And this verse has unfortunately been misused at times to do just that. However, this idea is not only contrary to the meaning of this passage but also contrary to what the Bible teaches.
Rather than portraying women as inferior to men, when put in context of the rest of the passage and the rest of Scripture, this verse does just the opposite. Peter here encourages husbands to love their wives by living with them with understanding and honor. The word Peter uses for honor here means "a valuing by which the price is fixed." This means that God has valued women, and that value is fixed: no man can change her worth. As people who have been valued by the Creator as worth the death of His Son, women are due a certain amount of respect and care.
Part of the reason that wives are due special honor from their husbands is because they are the "weaker vessel." This phrase most likely refers to the fact that, in general, men are physically stronger than women. It is possible that women could be considered "weaker" in other ways as well. For example, and again related to the physical body, women are more physically vulnerable to certain acts of violence due to the fact that they are the ones who bear children. They are also more physically vulnerable when pregnant. In many societies, even today, women do not enjoy equal privileges as do men. But rather than treat their wives as society would suggest, Christian husbands are to honor their wives, serve them, and protect them. A husband is called upon to esteem his wife and care for her, even to the point of laying down his life for her (Ephesians 5:25–29). The "weaker vessel" was not to be treated as something of lesser value, but as someone to love and honor as an equal in Christ.
The word translated here as "vessel" is the Greek word skeuos, meaning a vessel or implement or kind of tool. The word is completely neutral, neither masculine nor feminine, good nor bad. Other places in the New Testament use this word to refer to all Christians (2 Corinthians 4:7). When talking about sexual purity, Paul uses it in 1 Thessalonians 4:4 to mean the body specifically. When skeuos is used as a metaphor for our bodies in the New Testament, it refers to both men and women, establishing the idea that our bodies are vessels to be used by God, able to be cleansed and used for good (2 Timothy 2:21). The only difference is that the man's "vessel," generally speaking, is stronger than the woman's, and therefore he should treat her with honor and understanding.
This verse does not put women in any lower position before Christ. There is no distinction between the value of men and women in the Bible: "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus" (Galatians 3:28). The Bible teaches that both men and women are made in God's image (Genesis 1:27) and that both are sinful and in need of God's grace (Romans 3:23). The way of salvation for both men and women is through Jesus Christ, and in Him both men and women are inheritors of God's grace (John 14:6; Acts 4:12; 1 Peter 1:3–9; Ephesians 1:3–14). Men and women are equally called by God and capable of living out that calling for His glory (Ephesians 2:8–10; 2 Corinthians 3:18; Philippians 2:12–13; Colossians 3:9–17).
Again, Peter does not say women are less valuable because they are weaker. In fact, he does not even necessarily say that women are weaker. Rather, he tells husbands to treat their wives with special honor as the weaker vessel, meaning to honor and care for her as something more fragile than himself. Peter goes on to say women "are heirs with [men] of the grace of life," there is no difference between them in standing before God (1 Peter 3:7). God even builds in protection for women as the weaker vessel. When a husband is not living with his wife in understanding nor showing her honor, his prayers are hindered before God. Having fixed woman's worth as a recipient of His grace, God expects a husband to recognize that worth and treat his wife accordingly.
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