Some say that the
rare word arsenokoites used in 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10
refers to abusive sexual intercourse, such as between a man and a boy
(pedophilia). The argument is that homosexuality isn’t a sin, but pedophilia or
other abusive forms of intercourse are. However, the lexical
evidence indicates that Paul wasn’t thinking of adults with children. Even if arsenokoites’
meaning is debated, the rest of Scripture clearly condemns same-sex
relationships between adults.
Scripture’s foundation
of acceptable sexual behavior is between one man and one women joined in
marriage (Genesis 2:24). Leviticus also clarifies that men are not to have sex
with men using a generic, non-age specific word for “male” (Leviticus 18:22,
20:13). Arsenokoites appears to be a combination of arsen (male)
and koite (bed), the two words which the Greek Septuagint uses to
translate Leviticus’ prohibition on same-sex intercourse. Additionally, Romans
1:26–27 describes same-sex male and female relationships as depravity and the
result of God’s judgment. As with the Leviticus passages, it uses generic
language to refer to any sexual relationships between same-sex partners.
Combined, no clear
lexical evidence exists that arsenokoites means pedophilia, with the
rest of Scripture referring to same-sex relationships as sinful behavior
regardless of a participant's age. Arguments like
these are often made to find a “loophole” for a particular sin, in this case,
homosexuality. However, any deviation from God’s original design for human
flourishing is sin. We must repent of, and turn from, all such rebellion. True flourishing comes from following God's design and ways!
We are sinful (Romans
3:23), God’s enemies by nature (Romans 5:10), and under His judgment if we don’t
repent (John 3:36). However, though everyone’s conscience tells them what God
wants done (Romans 2:14–15) and that from nature we can see that God is angry
with us for not doing it (Romans 1:18–20), we suppress that knowledge because
we love sinning (Romans 1:18).
One way people suppress
the truth is to argue that God didn’t really say what He said. That was true in
the garden when we first rebelled (Genesis 3:1) and continues today. One
example is insisting that God’s prohibition against same-sex sexual
relationships was limited to pedophilia. However, Scripture
clearly condemns any sexual activity outside of one man and one woman in
marriage. Anything against God's design is rebellion and goes against human flourishing.
But know this:
while homosexuality is a sin, it is not unforgivable. All of our sins, whether
they be lying, cheating on taxes, or sleeping with someone of the same sex, can
be forgiven. However, forgiveness requires repentance. We must honestly acknowledge
that we are sinners, repent, and trust in Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection
as our only hope of forgiveness.
Are you a
believer who continues to struggle with same-sex attraction? All believers, if they
are honest, struggle with sin. The battle is real. However, God doesn’t want you to sin and has,
therefore, given you His Holy Spirit to purify your way of thinking. Continue bringing
your sinful desires to God, confessing your need for His Spirit’s help. God is quick
to forgive when we repent (1 John 1:9) and, in addition to His Spirit, He has
given us His word and other believers to teach and help us. We are never alone
in our fight against sin!