Being filled with the Holy Spirit is a command for all believers (Ephesians 5:18), and it refers to being influenced and guided by the Spirit in daily life. Unlike the Spirit’s indwelling—which happens once at conversion and never ceases (Romans 8:9; 1 Corinthians 6:19)—the filling of the Spirit is something that can increase or diminish depending on one’s submission to God. That’s why Scripture commands believers to be filled, to walk by the Spirit (Galatians 5:16), and not to grieve or quench Him (Ephesians 4:30; 1 Thessalonians 5:19).
Being filled by the Spirit is largely not about dramatic manifestations of His power during worship or prayer. Rather, it’s about living in step with God’s will through the Spirit’s power. Such a life results in spiritual fruit (Galatians 5:22–23), boldness in witness (Acts 4:31), joy in the midst of hardship (Acts 13:52), and a heart that honors God in speech and relationships (Ephesians 5:19–21). To be filled with the Spirit is to be under His influence in such a way that one’s thoughts, desires, and actions align with God’s purposes.
Being filled with the Holy Spirit is about submissively obeying what God teaches in His Word and living out His truth in our daily lives by His enabling (Romans 12:1–2; Philippians 2:12–13). Every believer is indwelt by the Spirit from the moment of salvation (1 Corinthians 3:16), but not every believer is obediently living under His influence. That’s what the filling of the Spirit means—to be actively directed and empowered by Him in daily life.
So how do you live a Spirit-filled life? You start by submitting to the Word of God. The Spirit works through Scripture to renew your mind, transform your desires, and equip you to obey. If you’re ignoring the Bible or resisting the conviction it brings to your life, then you are not walking in the fullness of the Spirit.
Second, you must avoid grieving the Spirit by sinning (Ephesians 4:30). Sin disrupts fellowship with God and diminishes the Spirits work through you (1 John 1:8—2:6). Ask God to search your heart regularly (Psalm 139:23–24) and repent quickly and fully when He reveals areas of disobedience.
Finally, be patient. The Spirit’s work is deep and slow. You are being transformed into the image of Jesus throughout your entire life (Romans 8:28–30; Philippians 1:6). You might not feel dramatic changes all at once—but over time, you will see fruit. You’ll become more joyful, more peaceful, more grateful, and more useful to God. You will become like that because that’s what being filled by the spirit produces.
If you are currently a believer, the Spirit already lives in you. The question is: are you submitting to Him? Examine yourself today and be filled with the Spirit by obeying God, loving other believers, and striving to be like Jesus.