What is chastening? How does God chasten us?

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TL;DR:

God disciplines those He loves in order to grow them into Christ-likeness, to give us a fuller view of Himself, and to remove from us what entangles us in this life. When we are chastened by God, we have a choice on how we respond. Accepting chastening is for our good and growth.

from the old testament

  • The LORD kept an entire generation in the wilderness after their disbelief (Numbers 14:21-23).
  • Moses was not allowed to go into Canaan because of disobedience (Numbers 27:12-14).
  • God did not drive out the enemy nations because of idol worship (Judges 2:1-5).
  • The LORD took the kingdom away from Solomon for idol worship (1 Kings 11:11).
  • Israel was carried off to Assyria for disobedience (2 Kings 18:12).
  • David was not allowed to build God’s temple (1 Chronicles 28:3).
  • Whoever God chastens is blessed (Job 5:17).
  • Blessed is the one who is disciplined (Psalm 94:12).
  • God disciplines those He loves (Proverbs 3:11-12).
  • God refines us in trials and afflictions (Isaiah 48:10).
  • The LORD allowed Israel’s exile to Babylon because of their sin (Jeremiah 40:3).
  • God refines His people in the fire (Zechariah 13:9).

from the new testament

  • God is perfect and must deal with sin (Matthew 5:48).
  • He treats us as His children (John 1:12).
  • God prunes us like branches so we will bear more fruit (John 15:2).
  • Christ took the wrath against sin for us (Romans 5:9).
  • There is no condemnation for us in Christ (Romans 8:1).
  • We are sons of God through Christ (Galatians 3:26).
  • God shows mercy toward us (Hebrews 8:12).
  • God has forgiven our sin (Hebrews 10:15-18).
  • God disciplines us as sons (Hebrews 12:5-11).
  • We are to be holy and set apart as obedient children (1 Peter 1:14-16).
  • He is faithful to forgive us when we ask (1 John 1:9).
  • We don’t practice sin once we are in Christ (1 John 3:4-10).
  • Christ disciplines those He loves (Revelation 3:19).

implications for today

Ultimately, chastening and discipline are not punishment. God disciplines us as children to grow us up and keep us on the straight path (Hebrews 12:5-11). Discipline only lasts for a certain length of time, so as unpleasant as it is, we must remember that punishment, in perspective, is a final judgment and lasts forever.

Christ took the punishment for our sin upon Himself on the cross. So if we are in Christ, although we will certainly receive discipline from time to time, we will never see punishment. Instead, God chastens us because He loves us and wants what is best for us.

Hebrews 12:5–6 says: "And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? 'My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.'" In the KJV, the word "disciplines" in verse 6 is translated as "chastens." This passage refers back to Proverbs 3:11–12. God's chastening is, at its core, His treatment of us as His children (Hebrews 12:7; see also John 1:12; Galatians 3:26).When we are being chastened, we may have feelings of conviction, experience difficult circumstances in our lives, or have decreased peace. These signs may be indicators that God is chastening us or that there is an area of life that needs to be addressed.

God is not a vindictive father punishing us for our past sins; instead, God loves us and sees the areas of danger that we ourselves cannot see. God's chastening is done as a method of purifying us and guiding us back to holiness.

We may also experience the natural consequences of our sins so that God can teach and train us in righteousness, encouraging us not to make the same mistakes. At the same time, they remind us of the grace and forgiveness that God has freely bestowed on us. While we may experience consequences for our sins, we know that they have been forgiven. When God provides correction, it is up to us to either positively respond or face whatever the natural consequences of our continued sin may be. Correction from the Lord is not easy, but we can be confident that it is for our good and it is motivated by His love for us.

understand

  • God chastens His children, those He loves.
  • Chastening is not punishment but meant to redirect our attention and affections.
  • God took on the punishment for our sins, so while believers experience God’s chastening, they won’t face His punishment.

reflect

  • When and how have you experienced God’s chastening in your life?
  • How do you usually respond when God allows you to experience the natural consequences of your actions?
  • What helps you respond to God’s chastening in a way that allows Him to bring the transformation and correction He seeks to bring?

engage

  • How can we differentiate between God’s chastening and general life challenges?
  • What helps us recognize His chastening?
  • How does knowing that Christ took our punishment on the cross impact how we view God’s discipline in our lives?