Salvation refers to being saved from God’s wrath against sinners (Romans 5:9). Jesus Himself said that He did not come to save the righteous but the repentant sinner (Luke 5:32). And the Bible teaches that everyone is sinful (Romans 3:23). This is why the Father sent Jesus, so that He could die and bear God’s wrath in the place of repentant sinners (1 Peter 3:18). To deny that one is a sinner is to deny God’s wrath against sinners (John 3:36b), the need for salvation, and the necessity of Jesus’ death. Therefore, one must believe he or she is a sinner and repent of that sin to be saved.
Though speaking to believers, John warned that those who do not believe they are sinners are liars (1 John 1:8, 10). He was writing in the context of those who had left and were teaching either that they had never sinned or that sin did not matter. He rejected their teaching, saying that they were children of Satan because they made a habit of sinning like him (1 John 3:8a), reminding the readers that destroying Satan’s works was why Jesus had come (1 John 3:8b).
Because Jesus’ death is about payment for our sin, if we refuse to believe that we are sinners, then Jesus will not save us. So yes, salvation starts with our acknowledging our sin, which leads to repenting of it and then trusting in Jesus as our only hope for salvation.
Salvation is not primarily about getting to heaven. It is about God dealing justly with sin in a way that avoids destroying the sinner. If you do not believe you are a sinner, then salvation is not for you!
That does not mean that you will get into heaven but that you are denying that salvation is needed, so it becomes useless to you. But God cannot save you if you do not think you need saving because salvation is about the forgiveness of your sin through Jesus’ payment for it. If someone thinks they are righteous on their own, they will not see their sin or need for salvation.
But Jesus does save those who humble themselves and repent. Repent means a change of mind which leads to turning away from sin and obeying Jesus. That does not mean someone can obey Him perfectly, but it means they acknowledge their need for God’s forgiveness through Jesus.
Do you see your sin? Do you recognize that you are a sinner by nature and by choice? That is, you naturally do not seek after God, and you do bad things? If not, we encourage you to read the Bible to begin to understand who God says you are. Think through your actions and thoughts. Are they good? Do they reflect God?
Until you change your view of yourself, salvation will be withheld from you. However, if you do see your sin, do not despair—you are the type of person whom Jesus saves! He spent time with the worst people in His day because they understood they were sinful, and He was quick to forgive anyone who truly repented of their sin (Luke 5:31–32). If you understand you are a sinner and have come to realize that you are under God’s wrath without a way to escape on your own, repent and trust in Jesus. He has promised never to turn away anyone who truly repents (John 6:37)!