what does the bible say?
Martha was Mary's sister (Luke 10:38–39) and Lazarus's sister (John 11:1–2), whom Jesus raised
from the dead (John 11:43–44). She lived in Bethany (John 11:1). We read about
her in three accounts:
Luke 10:38–42. As
Jesus traveled, He entered a village where Martha welcomed Him into their
home. That appears to be when Jesus met her. In that account, Martha is contrasted
with her sister Mary. While Mary remained at Jesus’ feet, Martha worked busily in
the kitchen, performing the duties of a host. She asked Jesus to rebuke Mary for not
helping, but Jesus gently chided Martha because Mary had her priorities
straight.
John 11:1–46. In
this account of her brother Lazarus, we learn that Jesus loved her family, and they had grown close to Him since the first dinner. The sisters sent for Jesus
to heal Lazarus, but He delayed. When He arrived, Martha chided Him for being
late, but rightly understood and confessed that Jesus was the resurrection and
life (John 11:25–27). Jesus then resurrected Lazarus (John 11:40–44).
John 12:1–11. In
this final account, Jesus again ate with them. However, this account focuses on Mary, with Martha mentioned only once as busy serving again.
Martha was not
chided for serving or for having a matter-of-fact personality but for being
anxious and prioritizing service over spiritual practice. We must also learn to
balance service in the church with spiritual growth, which comes through
practices such as attending church, praying, and reading Scripture.