King Ahab was one
of Israel’s most wicked kings (1 Kings 16:30). He was a weak man who allowed his
wife, Jezebel, to kill as many of God’s prophets as she could capture (1 Kings
18:4) and to replace them with nearly a thousand false prophets of Baal and
Asherah (1 Kings 18:19). She also manipulated situations to help her husband,
such as killing a neighbor so Ahab could get the land (1 Kings 21:1–16). Because of his
wickedness, God, through Elijah, caused a three-year drought in Israel (1 Kings 18:1),
leading to a severe famine (1 Kings 18:2). Near the end of the drought, Elijah challenged
Ahab to send all the pagan priests against him to see whose god
would respond (1 Kings 18:22–24). Elijah won and killed all the pagan priests (1 Kings 18:40).
Ahab did express
a type of repentance when confronted by Elijah and told that God was going to
kill him and everyone in his household in a vicious way (1 Kings 21:20–24, 27).
But it was not heartfelt. Ahab soon returned to his wicked ways, even disguising himself in battle to escape the enemy, only to be struck by an arrow shot “at random” that found the one gap in his armor and killed him (1 Kings 22:30–37). His death fulfilled God’s word against him, showing that human attempts to hide from judgment cannot thwart what God has determined (1 Kings 21:19–24; 22:34–38). Ahab’s life is, therefore, a sobering warning that a moment of humility is not the same as lasting repentance and that those who lead others are accountable to God for how they use the influence He has given them.
King Ahab’s life demonstrates
the trajectory of leaders who are both sinful and weak. He permitted his wife
Jezebel’s wickedness to flourish by allowing her to do whatever she wanted. However,
while Jezebel committed most of the evil deeds during Ahab’s reign, the
biblical authors placed the blame squarely on him as leader. That’s because both
leaders and husbands are accountable for how they led those under their
leadership.
We will likely
never be in a position over a nation like Ahab or Jezebel, but we can apply the lessons from their personal lives to our own.
If you are a
husband, God has placed you as the head of your family (Ephesians 5:23a). Your role is to protect your wife from sin by washing her with the word (Ephesians 5:25–27).
You are to do this to exemplify Jesus as head of the
church and how He loves her (Ephesians 5:23b, 25). As the husband, you will ultimately
stand before God, judged for how you taught and led her.
If you are a
wife, God has placed you as a helper to your husband (Genesis 2:18). You are to
submit to your husband, not because he’s perfect, but to exemplify to the world
how the church is to submit to Christ (Ephesians 5:24). Submission doesn’t mean
obeying when he’s leading you into sin, but it does mean not making his life more
difficult by being contentious (Proverbs 21:9) or by trying to manipulate
circumstances through him.
What God commands
for husbands and wives runs contrary to society. However, as Ahab and Jezebel
demonstrated, an upside-down relationship dynamic that runs contrary to God’s design can have serious consequences for both the spouses and those around
them.