Good Friday is good because it fulfills God’s long-promised plan to defeat sin and restore humanity, first hinted at in Genesis 3:15 and foreshadowed through sacrifices, the Passover lamb (Exodus 12:5–13), and the suffering Messiah (Isaiah 53; Psalm 22). Though humanity’s sin brought death (Ezekiel 18:4), Jesus willingly stepped in as our substitute, taking our place and bearing God’s wrath (Romans 5:8; 2 Corinthians 5:21). The cross satisfied God’s justice while extending His mercy, making forgiveness possible (Romans 3:24–26; 1 John 2:2). What looked like the ultimate injustice became the very moment salvation was accomplished (1 Peter 3:18; Colossians 2:13–14). Through His death, Jesus broke the power of sin, death, and Satan (Hebrews 2:14–15), and opened the way for us to have direct access to God (Matthew 27:51; Hebrews 10:19–22). The crucifixion was not defeat but victory—God turning the worst evil into the greatest good. Because of this, Good Friday guarantees eternal life for all who trust in Christ (John 3:16; Romans 5:9). Good Friday really is good...and it's not even the end of the story (Sunday/the resurrection is coming)!
How could something so good come out of something so bad? We’ve all seen glimpses of this in real life—like when you bomb a test but it pushes you to actually study and do better next time, when you miss out on something you really wanted but it opens the door to something better, or when a mistake at work or school teaches you a lesson you never forget. Even small things—like a canceled plan turning into unexpected rest or a frustrating day leading to a needed conversation—show how something “bad” can turn into something good.
The cross is the ultimate example of that truth. What looked like injustice, suffering, and defeat became the moment where sin was paid for and our relationship with God was restored. And because of that, we can trust that God is still working the same way in our lives today.
So when relationships fall apart, when we’re stuck in patterns we hate, or when life doesn’t go the way we planned, we don’t have to assume it’s meaningless. Further, we don't have to assume we're in it alone. God is always at work. Instead of trying to control everything or pretending we’re fine, we can bring those real struggles to God, trusting that He can bring something good—even if we can’t see it yet.