what does the bible say?
The Bible teaches that God, who is sovereign (Ephesians 1:11), determines everything that happens, as well as the means by which it happens. One such means is prayer. Jesus connected receiving with asking (Matthew 7:7–8; John 16:24), and James reaffirmed that people don't have what they need because they don't ask God (James 4:2). One reason God calls us to pray is that He has ordained our prayer to be the means by which His will is accomplished. God also wants us to depend on Him (Psalm 50:15). Whether we are thanking Him for what He has given (1 Thessalonians 5:18; Philippians 4:6) or asking Him for the basic needs we need to survive another day (Matthew 6:11), prayer teaches us that God provides all things. Besides this, God desires a real relationship with us. Prayer is not just about receiving but about showing our love for the Lord and our desire to spend time with Him (Psalm 63:1). Finally, prayer is one of the major means God uses to mature us. In prayer, we ask Him for forgiveness (Psalm 51; 1 John 1:9), strength (Ephesians 3:16), perseverance (Luke 18:1), and help to do His will (1 John 5:14).